Sometimes, I feel like I’m just waiting for someone to pull back the curtain, a la ‘Wizard of Oz’ and reveal me for what I fear I am: a creator with mediocre writing skills, echoing thoughts others have expressed far more eloquently. My tech knowledge? Barely enough to scratch the surface, leaving me wondering what value I could possibly add. I am surrounded by tech YouTubers whose knowledge and articulation seem leagues beyond mine. I can’t help but ask: Why would anyone value my insights?
This ‘imposter syndrome’ has been my silent partner for years, and its voice has grown a little louder in the last 12 months as I’ve challenged myself to build a career in online content creation. And I feel it won’t be disappearing entirely in the next 12.
But here’s the thing - I’m not looking for sympathy or fishing for compliments to soothe these insecurities. I aim to forge a connection with you, the reader, who might also be battling the sense that you’re just not good enough. If you’ve ever felt you’re barely making it, skating by on the goodwill of others, and fearing the day your facade crumbles, know this: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Yet, here’s the twist in my narrative so far, which I’m aware of but still don’t quite believe even as I write it: that voice telling you you’re an imposter? It’s lying. You are enough. Your unique talents and perspectives are not just needed; they’re invaluable. However, knowing this doesn’t silence the doubt, does it?
Imposter Syndrome is a cunning adversary. It’s that inner critic that constantly undermines your achievements and brands you a fraud on the brink of exposure. This pattern of self-doubt and attribution of success to anything but your own competence afflicts many of us in waves of varying intensity throughout our lives.
In our 21st-century world, where personal and professional growth is often showcased in highlight reels all over social media, it’s probably more relevant than ever to embrace our vulnerabilities rather than try and run away from them and promote the authentic path of learning and evolving. Borrowing from the concept of ‘grace’, we can apply a kind of understanding and acceptance towards ourselves and each other, especially when we stumble or falter.
Feeling inadequate or thinking that we don’t measure up is a common part of the human experience. The key lies in acknowledging these feelings without letting them confine us. It’s about recognising our strengths, addressing our weaknesses, and understanding that resilience, creativity, and community are essential to our growth journey.
As a content creator, my path has been anything but linear. It’s filled with learning curves, mistakes, and moments of clarity. By allowing myself to be imperfect and vulnerable, I’ve found that my worth isn’t tied to how much I produce or how closely I can emulate the success of others. Instead, it’s rooted in the authenticity and earnestness I bring to my work.
So, maybe I’m not an imposter after all, and I should read and believe what I write.
I’m a content creator navigating the complexities of digital expression, committed to learning, growing, and sharing my journey with honesty and integrity. I strive to add value in my unique way, embracing both my strengths and vulnerabilities.
And who are you?
I don’t just want to leave you with a question that you may struggle to answer if imposter syndrome has taken a tight hold. I did a little investigating, and here are 10 ways to help you (and me) overcome this issue:
Acknowledge the Feelings, Then Challenge Them: First, give yourself a nod for recognising these feelings. It’s okay to feel them, but then put on your detective hat and question those doubts. Are they based on facts, or are they just fears whispering tall tales?
Collect Positive Feedback: Start a “kudos” folder on your computer or a physical box where you can file away positive comments, feedback, and achievements. On days when the imposter syndrome hits hard, dive into this treasure trove for a reality check on your worth and contributions.
Stop the Comparison Game: With social media, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing your behind-the-scenes with that aforementioned highlight reel. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy. Focus on your journey, your progress, and what you bring to the table.
Set Realistic Expectations: Perfection is a myth. Aim for progress, not perfection. Every piece of content you create doesn’t have to be a masterpiece. Sometimes, it’s about showing up, being consistent, and shouting your voice into the wilds.
Share Your Feelings: You’d be surprised how many people feel the same way. Open up to trusted friends or colleagues about your feelings. This helps you realise you’re not alone and builds more profound connections with others who understand your experience.
Seek Out Mentors or Peers: Connect with others in your field who can provide perspective, advice, and constructive feedback. Learning from those who have walked a similar path before you can demystify the journey and boost your confidence.
Celebrate Your Wins, Big and Small: Got a new subscriber? Finished a draft? No matter how small, these victories are steps on your path to success. Celebrate them to remind yourself of your progress and capability.
Educate Yourself: The feeling of not knowing enough can sometimes fuel imposter syndrome. Dedicate time to learning and improving your skills. Each new thing you learn is another weapon in your arsenal against self-doubt.
Practice Self-Compassion: Talk to yourself like you would to a friend going through the same struggles. Beating yourself up only adds fuel to the imposter syndrome fire. Kindness and understanding start with how you talk to yourself.
Redefine Failure: Instead of seeing failure as a blot on your copybook, view it as a step towards growth. Every misstep is a lesson learned, bringing you one step closer to where you want to be.
Very insightful Mark.